went surprisingly well. Josh was able to offer some good insight and we got some fun "homework" to do. We have to experiment with different "sexual" activities to find out what is my level of comfort with them. It was a little weird talking about our sexual exploits with a virtual stranger, but she is pretty easy to open up to. Also, she told me to use my finger instead of the dilator for now, since a finger doesn't feel like a "foreign object." I'm to lay comfortably in bed with soft lighting and maybe some calming music and just insert it as far as I can without stressing myself out. It's nice to have a goal that I can actually meet. I mean, have you seen those dilators? They're huge!
We're going back next week. I hope to post some more specific practices that are prescribed for me, but I'm still a little uncomfortable with this whole thing. I'm getting better though, I promise.
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i agree. fingers are WAY less intimidating!
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